It’s Monday – here are some books to read

162768598585187In the middle of the school year when we were learning about empathy, acceptance and understanding, we read When I Was Eight about the Inuit girl who left her village to go to the outsiders’ school.  Remember how at first Oleman was excited to be there because she so wanted to learn to read, but how quickly that excitement turned to fear and disappointment.  They cut her hair and made her change her name.  They made her only speak in French and English and forced her to do endless chores with little food.  When I Was Eight and the chapter book version of the same story, Fatty Legs, tell the first part of Margaret Pokiak-Fenton’s story.  Not My Girl and A Stranger At Home tell the second part.

1870657111482930Eventually the ice melted in a summer long enough for a boat to travel up the Mackenzie River to bring Margaret home.  After two years at the school Margaret couldn’t wait to be with her family again in Tuktoyaktuk.  When she arrived, everything had changed.  She no longer knew the Inuit words she needed to talk to her family.  Her uniform and canvas shoes were impractical from Artic life – even in the summer,  and her stomach was now unaccustomed to the rich and fatty foods she had once so well loved.   Though she was home, she felt like an outsider.

Margaret was afraid she didn’t fit anywhere.  She was neither part of the Outsiders’ world, nor part of her family.  Fortunately, family is just that – always a place to come home to and Oleman finds her place.  Eventually she feels at home again with her sisters and her parents and her dogs.  But, once change happens it stays.  Not My Girl and A Stranger At Home helps us think about change; how we learn and grow to understand more about other people and ourselves through our experiences.   We all have choices.  We can see differences as weird and bad – something to get rid of so we are all the same.  Or we can see differences as interesting and wonderful – something to celebrate so we are richer because we are unique.   These are great books to read as a family.  There is so much to wonder about and consider – even the questions left unanswered are important.